When Armor Doesn’t Protect You

When Armor Doesn’t Protect You

The armor, the hard shell of protection from a world that feels too sharp, is not only keeping you tucked inside, but also keeping you from those who crave the soft place to surrender their armor that no longer feels like protection but weight. What if the protection...
I Pick Me-Healing Childhood Wounds

I Pick Me-Healing Childhood Wounds

I didn’t get picked. I applied for a leadership opportunity through work, and I didn’t get picked. I stay pretty protected by only trying things I think will bring me success. I have never applied for a job I didn’t think I would get. I don’t bowl or play mini-golf,...
Your Story Matters

Your Story Matters

“I’ve never told anybody this. I’ve never said it out loud.” Through tears, her words were difficult to understand, but we all felt her heart. I teach Mess of a Mom workshops in homes throughout my community. I begin with my story, my struggles, my qualifications to...
The Power of Connection

The Power of Connection

What does connection look like? While you can brainstorm several images of connection with your child, I think there’s an even more powerful question to ask. What does connection feel like? Have a Conversation. By starting with the literal question, children can...
What’s Your One Thing?

What’s Your One Thing?

We walked into the familiar room, the same as the weeks before. It was quiet and comfortable. The seats had a way of forming to us as if we had left our mark on them. Before us sat the one who was supposed to have the answers, but met us always with questions. “We...

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